Our Trinket Trading Guide

The Art of Trinket Giving at Fantasy Balls

What are trinkets, you ask?

These whimsical little mementos are to fantasy ball-goers what friendship bracelets are to Swifties — tiny tokens of connection, crafted with love, imagination, and a sprinkle of magic.

At fantasy balls, trinket-giving is a charming tradition — a way to break the ice, spark conversation, and make new friendships throughout the night. Each trinket you gift leaves a trace of your story in someone else’s pocket, while every token you receive becomes a keepsake of a shared moment beneath chandeliers and starlight.

Why Bring Trinkets?

Think of trinkets as your invitation to connect.

They’re conversation starters, memory makers, and symbols of the night’s enchantment.

Offer one to a stranger as you compliment their mask, share a dance, or exchange a laugh — and you might just leave with a friend for life (or at least a new Instagram mutual from another realm).

How to Carry Them

We know your outfit might not come with a bottomless bag of holding, so here are a few clever ways guests carry their treasures:

• On a belt loop or chain — easy access for quick exchanges!

• In a pouch attached to a belt or other accessory

• Hidden dress pocket (perfect for subtle sorcery)

• Inside a small clutch or mini shoulder bag

• Or get creative — tie them into your costume, hang them from your sash, or let them dangle from your wrist ribbons for a playful touch.

Trinket Ideas

Your trinkets can reflect the theme of the ball, your character persona, or simply something that feels like you.

Here are a few ideas to inspire your craft:

• Folded messages or notes sealed with wax or ribbon

• Bookmarks or scroll snippets with quotes or symbols

• Friendship bracelet or beaded charms

• Stickers, pins, or tiny keyrings

• Pressed flowers, tiny spell jars, or ribbons of fate

• Add your social handle or username if you’d like new friends to find you after the ball — because magic shouldn’t end when the music stops.

• Crochet items

• Tarot cards - immersive and fun!

Do I Have to Bring Trinkets?

Of course not!

Trinket trading is entirely optional — but it’s a delightful way to meet new people, especially if you’re feeling shy or unsure how to start a conversation. Whether you bring a few handmade tokens or simply enjoy receiving them, you’ll find that these tiny exchanges add an extra layer of wonder to your night.

So gather your glitter, your glue, and your imagination — and prepare to share a little piece of your magic with the realm.